people do come for a reason, and left with a reason, too

reflecting on the recent development of my social life,

i think i can now better internalize that saying.

some people will only be there for some limited timeframe, and that's okay. you might meet them later, or not.

you can't make everyone stay. and that's okay. 

nonetheless, another advice "to be present, here and now", should also become something that we need to internalize.

because on that limited timeframe, we can appreciate lessons and experience that we get during the time we spend together. 

and when it's over, we won't be left with so much regret or anger or sadness. but also, appreciate good things that happened, and lessons that are learned.

not trying to help others is not always a bad thing. afterall, your biggest responsibility lies within yourself. 

you are responsible for your happiness. life is hard already, and no one can ever truly care about your well-being but yourself.